Anticipation is good and bad wouldn’t you agree? It’s the ultimate in not having control. Sometimes anticipation is for a good reason, sometimes a bad. But it always kills. The waiting and the waiting and the waiting. Kind of like when it feels like it takes forever to get to an anticipated vacation destination and a blink on the ride home. Kind of like when you are dreading a situation that you know is going to happen whether you are ready for it or not. The pressure builds and sometimes you handle it and sometimes you don’t. And although I label myself as an “avoider” when the chips are down, I always show up. My friends don’t call me “Come Through Cahla” for nothing!